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    Has any of you been forced to change yourself for the better right after a breakup? Like having a more active lifestyle, tried to learn a new skill, etc...

  • #2
    I actually started doing yoga when my last relationship ended

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    • LiquidAss
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      How long have you done that yoga thing before you dumped it for an another thing? I have not tried any of those yoga stuffs, so what were the good effects on your life?

    • AlysaBdN
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      I am a bit curious. What does yoga do to the body? Are there good effects?

  • #3
    No, I did not. I mean, is that a stage and requirement when we have a breakup? If yes, then I have been missing a lot. OMG.

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    • cutestman
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      I wasn't forced but I had to, I had to regain my strength on my cardio so I started jogging for miles again. I've cut my vices and started eating clean too.

    • smilebaby
      smilebaby commented
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      cutestman I wish that I could do what you had done. But jogging for miles is tiring. lol.
      Last edited by smilebaby; 10-05-2019, 12:21 PM.

    • NinaMcAdams
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      Good for you cutestman whenever i undergo breakup I just party and drink most of the time

  • #4
    Does making myself more beautiful count? I usually go to the salons for my hair and nails right after crying from those breakups. So, that means that over the years, I had been improving my appearance. Thanks to all bastards for making me more gorgeous.

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    • antitrump
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      It does count, but I wonder why do most women do that? I need answers lol! This also reminds me of my friend who once posted a selfie with her short hair and the caption goes: 'You said you like it long, so I had to cut it', so, do girls have to do that?

    • kittycat123
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      antitrump Yes, some ladies do these kinds of makeovers. It is a psychological satisfaction to achieve something better.

    • PieFun
      PieFun commented
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      antitrump That girl did that thing as a revenge to her ex-boyfriend. It is a way to stay away from what he wanted and proving that she could deny things to annoy him. lol.

  • #5
    Yes, I learned a new skill. A skill that every woman must know and should pass it well.
    I learned how to flirt better and done it with flying colors.

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    • kizliak
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      So, how did you learn that skill?
      Did you flirt with a lot of guys and used them as your training ground? Lol!
      I really wanna know what kind of flirting skill you've learned.

    • meowmeowbark
      meowmeowbark commented
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      I also want to learn your moves and tips on how to flirt more. Maybe you could share to us those things in order for us to apply it on real life. lol.

  • #6
    Originally posted by MoiraClay View Post
    Has any of you been forced to change yourself for the better right after a breakup? Like having a more active lifestyle, tried to learn a new skill, etc...
    Wait, who? I mean who would even force me to change? I wouldn't change a thing about me coz I never did anything wrong. Most of my relationships ended up leaving me, ghosting me, and some even cheated on me.

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    • JenniferFray
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      So, it is safe to say that you are a loser? I mean, haven't you noticed that you were always left out? I think it would be a good advice that you should make a better version of yourself.

    • rumdrum
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      BlackmanAndRobbin Don't you think the reason why they always leave you is that you never change a bit about yourself? It's best if you change your bad habits into good ones.

  • #7
    Actually, not myself per se but a part of my self. It would always be my hair which is always changed when I need to change into a better one. I go to a salon and have my hair done - a new color with some treatments to make it shine.

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    • daddyslittleG1rl
      daddyslittleG1rl commented
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      I guess it's what every girl do, get their hair done. Dye it or get fringes and bangs or just cut them short as usual.

    • H3r3foryou
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      It's what every girl do and I don't see any guys changing their hairstyles after getting their heart broken lol!

    • SandyDempsey
      SandyDempsey commented
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      H3r3foryou Nice observation. It is true that the women would change their appearances while the men would remain as they were. lol.

  • #8
    Actually, not forced, but it was the free will to improve oneself and as a form of distraction.

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    • rumdrum
      rumdrum commented
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      Yes, self-healing is the way to go. You should always distract yourself after a breakup because loneliness will slowly consume you and that's difficult to deal with.

    • carzin89
      carzin89 commented
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      Why so would you call it a form of distraction? How distracted were you to make yourself a better version?

  • #9
    Originally posted by MoiraClay View Post
    Has any of you been forced to change yourself for the better right after a breakup? Like having a more active lifestyle, tried to learn a new skill, etc...
    I changed my ways and stayed single for a year to improve whole self.

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    • crystalinejoy
      crystalinejoy commented
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      Really? Then that's great! I applaud you for that. You'll soon meet someone who deserves the better version of you now.

    • SandyDempsey
      SandyDempsey commented
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      OreoEater789 It's good to know that you've changed yourself and become better than ever!
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