Do Older Men Fall In Love Easier?

[kittycat123]

I'm in a fwb/friendship with a 55yo and we've known each other for 3 months. Recently he's been calling me babe, saying I miss you, I need you and that he's addicted to me and I'm curious to know if he means it and is falling for me or is it just him being nice and wanting more sex?

Also, does really good sex make a man fall for u?

All I want from him is sex, so please help me figure out what his deal is. Thank you.

[iwantsexnowplease]

He's just addicted to young tail. He should just be happy with his current simple friends with benefits relationship and quit being such a pussy.

[iwantsexnowplease]

kittycat123 yes I guess that's the reason behind.

[iwantsexnowplease]

punkchick not really it was just my opinion.

[kittycat123]

iwantsexnowplease Now I know. Thank you

[GoobleHipur]

I guess he is just being extra nice to you because he wants more sex. Did you not talk about your boundaries before you guys had this relationship?

[kittycat123]

We haven't talked about that one yet

[GoobleHipur]

I guess It's about time for you guys to talk about it.

[kittycat123]

Yeah, I'll do that soon for sure.

[FedoraTheExplora]

Maybe he is already looking for somebody who would be accompanying him since he's almost at the age where he would need someone to be with him always

[kittycat123]

Like for a lifetime partner???????

[BlackmanAndRobbin]

He is looking for a companion already that is why he is doing his best to win you over. You should be lucky that he is still interested in doing it with you

[kittycat123]

Companion for what? But I only want sex. That's it

[PennyTration]

Is this your first time being with someone of that age or you've been into older men ever since?

[Softandwet]

Why do you think that it might be her first time with someone that old?

[kittycat123]

is it not obvious? it's my first time

[Juanhunglow209]

Each person is different. He may have fallen for you. It is always nice to come home to someone special. There are plenty of times I wish I had someone waiting for me or coming home to me.

[SupaPussy789]

Straight from the horses mouth. Thanks for sharing your thoughts regarding this one

[kittycat123]

Now I'm already enlightened. thank you by the way

[OreoEater789]

kittycat123 you're lucky that Juanhunglow209 is still here to answer your question. Hope that everything is clear now

[kittycat123]

yeah everything is already clear now

[OreoEater789]

Good to know that everything is clear already

[kittycat123]

OreoEater789 How about you? Have you experienced this one also?

[Freew0man82]

It would be much better to end things with him if all your after is sex. It is clear that what he is looking for something serious considering his age

[W3tThet1p]

I agree with you on that one. He would be really devastated if he founds out that all you want from him is sex and nothing else

[dagift2womens]

I already feel bad for him if she ever end things with him

[kittycat123]

I'm already enlightened but now the problem is I don't know how to end things up

[Snugglebear]

At that age, yes they tend to fall easier since they are also thinking of having someone to really take care of them

[kittycat123]

Is it based on your experience? Snugglebear

[Snugglebear]

kittycat123 not really some of my friends had that kind of relationship.

[kittycat123]

Snugglebear alright then but are you also willing to experience this kind of confusion? lol

[Moap69]

Really good sex can definitely make a man fall for you if you are not both on the same page. Fwb relationships are really fun but is very easy for someone to mess it up. The reason is because most of the times you meet with this person is to have sex and thats it. You dont have to deal with their everyday problems, arguments etc....so is perfect situation lol...if you dont want him to get more attached, definitely have a conversation with him and make it crystal clear. Just to avoid headaches down the road.

[Snugglebear]

You said it right, It's better to set the boundaries clear.

[Juanhunglow209]

On the part of the text that asked if having really good sex helps to make a man fall in love easier. I would say this. I can write 2 books on sex one would be located in the history part of a library the other in fiction. So I am jealous that he is getting some. All I get is texts.

[kittycat123]

Texts? no face to face one?

[Juanhunglow209]

Face to face is a fantasy for me I can't even get a number to call from anyone on this sight.

[kittycat123]

That's a little bit creepy for me. Lol

[lovestudder]

I think he is starting to be attached to you and this might even go to the direction of him falling for you. Better be careful and remind him about your boundaries.

[lovestudder]

daddyslittleG1rl yeah that's right. Have you been in this situation before?

[lovestudder]

kittycat123 thats better so you'll not end up hurting each other soon.

[kittycat123]

lovestudder Thank you for the advice

[AglowReportsDari]

I've been thinking about that lately and I do think older people do fall in love easily, just like kids, I think they tend to look for a companion in life, they;re just wired that way, and when our time comes to get older, we'll do too as well.

[shumwap]

I had this kind of relationship before, I ended it because the guy is starting to be so clingy.

[kittycat123]

How did you ended it???

[shumwap]

cutestman 25 years gap.

[shumwap]

I told him I don't like the way he is being attached with me and ended out reglationship right there and then.