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    My friend has a new boyfriend. She confided to me that her boyfriend is a workaholic man. He has no time for her even for their sex. It is either postponed or sometimes cancelled. So how to deal with a person who is always busy?

  • #2
    If she loves him then she should not complain. A workaholic man is a responsible man. I would choose a workaholic man over a free loader one who would have lots of time for me.

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    • kittycat123
      kittycat123 commented
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      Hmmm, yeah, in some way, you are correct. I would also choose a workaholic man than a free loader man.

  • #3
    If a guy is always busy then he should be dumped! A good guy would know a proper time management. He should have a balanced life. The fact that he is focused on just one aspect of his life makes him a poor time organizer.

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    • Snugglebear
      Snugglebear commented
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      I am not so sure if she would dump him.

    • SupaPussy789
      SupaPussy789 commented
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      scrumptious1 True. There are other men who could provide proper time for her.

    • SupaPussy789
      SupaPussy789 commented
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      Snugglebear Well, it was just my advice for her as continuing the relationship could not change the man.

  • #4
    If a woman is not going to make time for me and Always put work first , that just says she is not ready for a relationship and I should tell her so, and move on, and wish her well in her work endeavors.

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    • Damitboy45
      Damitboy45 commented
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      Airglax , yes I am the type of person who can see if something is going to work or not, fairly quickly, and I don't think you have to be rude or mean about it, especially if they have not done anything but try to get in a relationship when they were just not ready for one.

    • demoomed
      demoomed commented
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      Damitboy45 Wow. Very well said. Yeah, you are right. You could still be friends even after breaking up with the relationship.

    • Snugglebear
      Snugglebear commented
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      Letting go of someone we love is also difficult but there are times that we need to.

  • #5
    Being dedicated to work is fine but if he is so anal retentive he cannot see the half of his life that gives him a reason to work hard set him down and explain to him he might need to work on that or lose out.

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    • AglowReportsDari
      AglowReportsDari commented
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      He could be saving lots of money for their future use that is why the man has been working so hard.

    • Juanhunglow209
      Juanhunglow209 commented
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      Still if he took his eyes off the real prize. Ask him if he is doing this for them she should get a say in what them is going to be.

  • #6
    If he was a workaholic, how was he able to date her? All he needs to do is to learn how to manage his time properly in order to make the relationship work

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    • Freew0man82
      Freew0man82 commented
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      I think he knows how to manage his time and maybe being in a relationship is way down on his list of priorities

    • Movievestre
      Movievestre commented
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      It could be that the man had changed to a new job recently and the job was too demanding for lots of time.

    • Snugglebear
      Snugglebear commented
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      Movievestre was right. He shifted to a new career. They dated before the man had acquired his new job.

  • #7
    How sure is your friend that she and the guy are an actual couple if he can't spend enough time and energy to be with her

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    • Blockro
      Blockro commented
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      That's the sad part when people would just point that at least he's working for both of them. But he's forgetting how important it is to spend more time with someone.

  • #8
    There's a chance in that the timing was off when they started the relationship. I would suggest to try and talk to him about it

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    • AirAngelsAmaze
      AirAngelsAmaze commented
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      What kind of a talk, specifically?

    • FedoraTheExplora
      FedoraTheExplora commented
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      AirAngelsAmaze she needs to tell him that just because they're a couple already, it doesn't mean that he stops paying attention to her

    • Snugglebear
      Snugglebear commented
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      Yeah, I think they need to talk seriously about it.

  • #9
    The not having sex is strange for me. Never been with or met a guy who would cancel sex

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    • BunnyPeachShang
      BunnyPeachShang commented
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      They could have scheduled it already then clients would arrive unannounced so the guy would have to cancel it. Her boyfriend must have been a salesman!

    • OreoEater789
      OreoEater789 commented
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      Probably be fucking someone else and her friend is still fuckin clueless.

  • #10
    Wait, what kind of work does the man have? Why is he so busy? Does it involve constant travelling into across the country and even abroad?

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    • SaltBabyFlavor
      SaltBabyFlavor commented
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      I think she would have mentioned about the travelling for work thing immediately if that's one of the reasons why he's always busy at work

  • #11
    The two of you should manage your time properly to make your relationship at work considering that the two of you are just starting one

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    • Tastyrese
      Tastyrese commented
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      Time-management is always the key to situations like this.

    • Alivens
      Alivens commented
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      Tastyrese A work could destroy a relationship so yeah, time management is needed.
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